)))))))))))) Lillith (((((((((((( dear sweet woman, you are doing something very important, you are loving her. Through it all, your love has been her positive constant. Her body has "betrayed" her, brought burdensome lessons for her mind to unravel and come to terms with "thier deeper meaning".

But, YOU, have been there, by her side, watching (no easy task), caring, coping....... you may feel helpless, but, from where I'm sitting, you have done and are doing the priceless part: the loving part. the exhausting part. the watching part.
I honor your committment. Grit must be your middle name.