Please clarify. Does your wife want "to" and you can't, or do you want to and she can't. From the begining I took it as she wanted to and you couldn't get things to cooperate. But after reading from others I take it as she makes you want to and then doesn't want to be intimate anymore. Just clarity please.

It is horribly embarrassing to discuss these things w/ a T. They analyze everything and that makes it even more unnerving. But remember they have been intimate before in there life time. They have the extra advantage of training in this area of human development to. Go w/ the flow. Best of luck.