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Leed · Oct 04, 2012, 11:32 AM

Hi sweetie --First, did you tell your Mom that your Dad molested you? If you didn't you HAVE to. And you should NOT feel guilty because it was NOT your fault! How could it be? You did NOTHING to cause it -- you were just a tiny child!!! You couldn't stop him -- he was too big and you were too small! You must tell your Mom -- and don't let her say that you're just "making it up" -- make sure she believes you!!! And stop feeling guilty honey. You didn't do anything to cause it.

If your therapist won't listen to you, say "PLEASE LISTEN!!!" This is how I feel !!! And if she keeps talking, keep saying "PLEASE LISTEN!" Don't stop until she shuts up and REALLY listens to you!!! Some therapists just like to hear themselves talk.

And don't let her tell YOU how YOU feel. YOU know how you feel.

Tell your Mom you don't WANT to go into a group home - if that's how you feel. Since you and Mom have a pretty good relationship, she should listen to you, right?

And if sister continues to badger you, talk to Mom about it. She shouldn't be saying those rotten things to you. Those are hurtful things, and she's being a brat. You can tell Mom I said so too!

Best of luck honey and let us know how you're doing from time to tome, ok? God bless. Hugs, Lee