not being ridiculed, dismissed, pushed aside, railroaded, or told that whatever is being expressed isn't important, doesn't matter, is trivial, stupid, or something that we should be over already or something we're trying to make into a fuss.

to us support means the above WON'T HAPPEN.

to us support means that even if someone doesn't understand or doesn't agree that they still listen, respectfully, to what is being expressed.

but we know life and this site are not about unconditional support so from time to time to have negative experiences with support is good as it shows us TRUE LIFE and the reality of ppl and their shortcomings and their humanity or lack thereof.

as a human in progress we appreciate the lessons even if at the time they're crushing and painful. at least we can learn from those who aren't supportive or kind the same way we learn from those who embody the very essences of support and kindness.

to us when an intentional lack of support is shown we think of it like a hot pan on the stove---don't touch! i.e. we turn to our pal the ignore button!