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Oct 05, 2012, 04:24 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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You know -- I think you answered your own question -- you said you were "Fantasizing about you just not being together." I think that's a good idea.
I don't think the two of you SHOULD be together. He has some huge issues with anger, and some day it's going to come to a head and you just might get hurt. Are YOU a part of that anger? Who knows cause he's not telling. He definitely needs INDIVIDUAL counseling. You two could go to couples counseling but I don't think it would do any good, He needs to go FIRST all by himself. I'm not even sure that YOU NEED it. 
Sweetie, why don't you two take a long break from each other while he gets some counseling? You need some space to think about this since you've been dreaming about being without him anyway. See what it's like and then make up your mind. But right now things just aren't right.
I wish you the very best. Wll you PLEASE let me know how you come out? I'd really like to know. God bless and take care. Hugs, Lee 
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The truth shall set you free but first it will make you miserable..........................................Garfield
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