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Oct 05, 2012, 07:31 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Hi Tony ~ I'm sorry you're having marital problems. 30 years is a long time to be together and it would be a shame for you to leave before you have tried everything to save this marriage.
First, are you SURE she is cheating or do you just "think" she is. Do you have proof? Have the two of you sat down and calmly talked about this? Has she said that she was in love with this man? Did she say she wanted a divorce? If she does, then why hasn't she filed for a divorce? Why hasn't she moved out? It doesn't really sound like she's "in love" and ready to end the marriage to me. 
It would seem to me that the two of you should go to couples counseling and see what can be done to save this marriage. You should try EVERYTHING -- if she's WILLING -- to save these 30 years of love and committment. If she's not wiling, then I guess you've got your answer.
I wish you the very best Tony. God bless and please keep us posted, will you? We DO CARE. Hugs, Lee 
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The truth shall set you free but first it will make you miserable..........................................Garfield
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