Hi Seeker,
I don't think it's neccessarily over and done with. There are a lot of people over the age of 50 who are meeting, falling in love and marrying.
I go through periods of time when I can't be bothered. It may go on for many months but eventually I'm back in action and ready to try again.
I think you're going through one of those periods now.
Enjoy your independence and freedom but keep an opened mind and heart.

((((Seeker)))))