[quote=Antimatter;2623014Farmer, many times in therapy, if the therapist forgets appointment times, etc. , and a patient geets their feelings "bruised" as you say, it could be well wotrh a whole session time to talk about it. When mylast xt forgot to schedule me, I was hurt, and I'm glad my T didn't dismiss it as being just me not accepting the human part of T because after talking I told him I wasn't angry at him be ause he forgot me, I was angry at me for being forgettable. Everything isnt as superficial as it may seem.[/quote]
That's fine if that's the case. Not saying it isn't. Obviously, that's something that fixated will need to do some introspection on and decide in the moment.