Nothing wrong with craving that connection Anika chit chat can become verry interesting depending on train of thought and how far OT you can get..its fun and entertaining.And I let them spill their guts,I even clean it up too.I just keep mine to me. And I guess wiping up their guts gives us a deeper connection,and frienships are formed, but on my terms... I let them in, only so far, to see I'm human, and I can suffer too. No further. I used to bond intensely with others. No more tho.