Ok, wow, you've definitely got more life experience than me! (When you mentioned the age of 45 on one of the threads, I thought that's how old you were.) In fact, decades more planet time! What you are doing is clearly working for you! (Understatement.)

I understand the need to devote one's energy in various places in the quantity that one deems appropriate for each. You have determined yours, and that is as it should be, but feel free to alter that (hint, hint ). Till then, best wishes.

Ha, and no worries on the spelling/grammar/incorrect word thing! I swat myself over such things too. (Though not as much in posting, because sometimes my intended tone seems to come through better in playing it fast, loose and animatedly conversational, which might make no sense or even be accurate assesment(!)) Truly, it's ok. In the bigger picture, it's the feeling behind the post that matters the most.

Hope you at least stick around at least long enough to see the response posts here.