Hi DasedNConfuzed,

If you love your wife that much, then please work on the issues at stake (trust, self-esteem etc.). Her life wouldn’t be easier, imagine how racked with guilt & devastated she’d be. Despite being gorgeous and turning heads, she still chose *you*. Doesn’t that say a lot about how she feels about you?

Are you seeing a therapist? It would be advisable to seek help asap so both the self-esteem issues and the marriage can get back on tracks. What better proof of love than to ‘win her back’, rather than punishing her...

Give yourselves a chance at happiness. You both deserve it. And stay safe!

(((DasedNConfuzed)))