but if you're saying you're fulltime now? then that does look good. they like you better if they think they are taking you from someone else - they assume the other person / job has taste and judgment, they know they themselves don't. it's just like finding a 2nd boyfriend - or so they tell me... if you can do it without getting too depressed, then do it? but maybe i'm a bad person to advise. on the one hand, I needed to get off the merry-go-round; on the other hand, I could be doing more: idk, hard to say.