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Originally Posted by Clinte89
Stay gentle James. That's good you don't have to be angry now just even a time you where angry. What set you off. Like today in kinda angry to be angry but I am afrias it will turn to rage and in pissed my family hasn't realized I'm in trouble. I don't know how to tell them and they are suppose to read minds.
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oh Clinte honey, please try not to cut. I don't exactly know how to stop, but my 2 older kids do it and it breaks my heart. I saw a scar on my daughter's arm couple days ago, a big one. She asked me what I was staring at and I said, "looks like it needed stitches". she said, yea it probably did. but she hides it at the time. being a parent is hard, and my kids do the cutting and hide it from me usually. but i try to talk to them a lot, and get them to T, etc.
it's up to you to communicate this to the family. they may not be mind readers, or they may be wanting to pretend things are ok because they want things to be ok. but they must care about you a whole lot, you're still living together.
what is it you want them to do to help you? or to do differently?