aww hun... this is difficult and dammit your T is out of town right? i think he doesn't want to invade your privacy and your business, that might be why he's saying it like that. like he doesnt want to make you uncomfortable or ashamed. these parents love you. i have an idea... it might be a shocker for them, but what if you showed them the poem you wrote about cutting. you would need to plan it so they don't spaz out and have you 5150'd. just talk to them, tell them you love them and not trying to hurt them or scare them, but want to share something about the real you and how much you are hurting. and if you need more attention from them, it's ok to say that, same with space if you want people to leave you alone. idk, an idea..