that would be great if you make an agreement with us

i once read to use a red felt pen instead of cutting. it is supposed to give some satisfaction being the red color.

seems like the focusing on homework issue comes up a lot, have you ever been dx'd or tested for adhd? undx'd adhd causes horrible anxiety and depression and low self-esteem. it does occur along with bp, not totally uncommon - i have both. both of my older kids have both. just an idea.