I still don't quite understand what the expression means, I think. T has to be present during the session, so clearly he is there... but from some posts in this thread it seems as if it is about T doing extra things between sessions? Or does it have to do with believing that T wants you to get better for a reason other than them wanting to do their job well? I'm sorry to be dense. "Being there" is one of those expressions in English that I read sometimes but don't seem to get my head around what they mean.