Tiger,
There is something to men working with men, and women working with women. It seems we approach solving problems just a little too differently. When you started out, you asked for support. I misread that as you looking for a solution to your problem. My bad.

Thank God for good people like Darkeyes. Her kind words were what you were looking for. And I am glad you found them.

I am an alcoholic, I come from a long line of alcoholics, and I do understand what you are gong through, I really do. And when I first started to look for help, I like you wanted people to tell me that everything was going to be OK.

But that’s not what they told me. They told me that if nothing changes, nothing changes. They told me that if I wanted to be happy again, I needed to get into action. But then again, that was man to man.

Best of luck my friend, and keep coming back, that was something else they told me.
Richard