Well, I'll be honest, there is a huge difference between having a clean home, a absolute perfect cold domain, and a obsession with cleanliness. I'm not sure of your exact situation, but to take a break and let the house get a little dusty now and then is okay. I think it does matter ultimately if your husband has something about it. Maybe take a break for a day, then clean the next. Or clean just the basics like dishes, laundry, and after yourself for one day, then sweep mop, and dust the other day.