I don't care how my therapist feels about me. I don't care if she doesn't really care.

I just want her to act like she does. Which, for me, is giving useful advice, providing me with insight, and helping me navigate the medical/psychiatric system. And actually telling me the truth (not merely saying the "right" things, but also calling me out on my bullsht).

Some people obviously care more about the feelings than the actions (or at least give them equal weight). It sounds like you and me, stopdog, only care about what's visible.