sd - 1. it is by definition going to be personal, because you are each a person. period. 2. a wrong interpretation is simply an opportunity to get closer to a correct interpretation. it takes a long time to train them - as Roseanne said, "he didn't just come out of the box like that." that's part of the reason the r/s is more one-sided? 3. what questions are you asking that you are not getting answers to? it isn't the same for everybody, but i'm hearing that you believe it must be. I think it's like having kids - so unique yet so common a human experience - it blows the mind (ps, leave me out!).