((((((AMELIE)))))) I saw you post and my first initial response is that I wanted to ask you...Do you have anything POSITIVE to say about yourself? Obviously the way people perceive themselves is the way others will look at them..say that I am a nobody but I have the confidence that alludes this air about me that says I am somebody important..you better believe that people are going to believe that I am somebody important..its how you believe in yourself..how you present yourself..
I know this is easier said than done..I used to be extremely extremely shy..I really did..I walked around with my eyes on the ground..my shoulders slumped..my voice barely audible..now if you new me..I am wild cat!! Its achievable..and you don't have to be beautiful and skinny and famous..and all that jazz to do what you are asking..you simply need to believe in yourself..you simply need to start saying..I can..and I do..and I will..instead..of I can't..and I don't..and I won't..or I will never..Like you did in your post! just tell me five good things about yourself..things that make you stand out..just five things..
You have focused for so long on what you don't have and what you see every one else having..or what you THINK they have..the truth is..everyone has insecurities of some sort..some are just better at covering them than others..I hope I helped a little..and not confused you..and if you ever need to talk you can PM me..Good Luck! Keep your head up and Positive thoughts flowing!