Dear Valexand

30 is young, really young, most of my girlfriends who have had children have had them past the age of 36, at least 6 of them I can think of off the top of my head. If you menstruate regularly there is no real need to majorly panic, worry or hurry to have kids till you are 35.

A lot can happen in 5 years, your future could be entirely different in 5 years time.

I'm 33, I don't have kids but i'm not panicing yet.

The other thing to consider is having your eggs frozen, I know little about this, what it costs, what it entails but from the little I understand about it could offer you another option to have kids later perhaps with a partner you meet later, its just another area to investigate.

All I want to say is don't fret, there is plenty of time, ease yourself of the burden, even 32 leaves you plenty of time and options, the man of your dreams could be 18 months away.

Best wishes

xx