This is going to sound really strange, so please keep a open mind, as this is humiliating to even post!

I went on a trip about a month ago, and while driving, I used a incontinence product (part need, but mostly sexual in nature to me). I had the intention of throwing this out, but forgot about it.

Fast forward to today, and my dad decided to get into my car trunk to get something out that I had with me on the trip. So my dad found that in my trunk.

My dad is VERY closed minded, and was outside yelling at me, loud enough for the whole neighborhood to hear, about this extremely private thing.

I played dumb, like I didnt know what he was talking about, and have since hid out in my bedroom. I dont know how to react to this, but if I dont, my dad will tell everyone he knows about this, and it is going to ruin our relationship. My mom refuses to talk to me now.