Im sorry to hear this is happening mo if he was so bothered about the cleaning why didn't HE do it? Does he expect you to be his maid? The silent treatment is also pretty childish - id treat yourself to a nice day out if you can, go focus on you and enjoy sometime away from the house because it sounds like your self esteem got a bashing. If this problem persists i hope you can find a way to broach the subject with him. Work might be stressful for your husband but we all have our own difficulties and it sounds like he needs to work on being more sensitive. Hope the situation improves, all the best hun