My son has made the decision himself to not be around his father after his grandmother is gone. He had found his stash of meth and paraphenial and was really upset. I am just really torn about what to do wbout the child support and keeping him in jail. And stay in jail he would, he owers over $25,000 to his little girl and well over $45,000 to my son. Wondering if it is even worth it? I am not a vindictive person. I have made it clear tto my son there will be no drugs used as long as he lives with me. I made it clear to his father I would call in Family and Children Services if I even think he is doing drugs with him again. I just wish he was the decent father he used to be before he started drugs.