I have been reading up on attachment styles because I struggle with some issues around this related to my relationship with my father. I have been experiencing some very painful feelings around this and was very surprised last week when I found myself wanting to distance myself from T. I know I am projecting past junk onto her, but internally, I feel like a war is going on within me. My T just called and has to go out of town on a family emergency, so this gives me some time to process on my own. I was wondering if anyone else is working on this issue and if so, how are you helping yourself? It is not fun at all but I know I need to do the work... Thanks!