fuzzywuzzy, no kidding. I love it when I realize an old button, pattern has been punched. I get to "see" a person from my past in the neutral light of a different person doing "it".

"OH", I get to say, oh, "it" had nothing to do with me, "it" was their stuff. I get to step back and do a little diffusing and updating of that "file". I can turn back around and look a the person in my 3D life with new eyes, learn to not take their behaviors toward me personally, even though it was me who "got it"...... learn to see them as the stuck damaged people they are....

That awareness up against all the work and healing I've done, well, it puts things in a new perspective. Understanding what the heck happened back when, answering the age old question, "How could they.....?" whatever...... turn into, "OH, THAT"S HOW!" oh, oh, oh I love it when that understanding comes. Eureka moments that fill in the puzzle.