wow Confused...

i'm going to be blunt, i'm not always, and i'll gladly try to offer you support if you stick around here. but that whole thing sounds nuts. i think you both probably could have something going on... glad you're going to a counselor.

she sounds plain adhd to me, and i think you might be obsessed about this dead and over relationship. but what do i know, i hope you find answers and help working with the counselor.