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Originally Posted by Leed
Well, I'm not a guy, but I think what you're talking about is pre=wedding jitters. Everyone who is about to get married gets them. You're wondering if she is really "the one" and whether you're making a mistake or not. Everyone gets that. You're NOt making a mistake if she's the love of your life. You're just scared. It's normal.
And I've been on antidepressants for probably 40 years, and there have been times that I've forgotten to take them -- and yes, I do think differently. My depression gets worse, and then my anxiety worsens, and that by itself makes me think differently. So now I NEVER forget my meds. I just don't want to go thru that torture anymroe. It's just miserable!
So best of luck on your wedding day! I'm sure you two will be VERY HAPPY. Congratulations! And keep posting too, okay? Hugs, Lee
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Thank you very much. Yes she is the love of my life. My best friend. Thats why it hurts so much when i have these thoughts. I know you really cant help it, but it still makes me mad. I am so happy to be getting married. A part of me is nervous like you said. And most is the depression/anxiety. I know we will be fine tho. Has depression played a role in your relationship?