That's a tough spot either way. And no you don't want to have have to go through all that again. I remember how much pain you were in.

And having to decide if you can afford to miss work to take care of your medical needs the whole thing really stinks! I don't know what you should do, but I hope if you decide to go that you would get lucky and get seen quickly in the first day.
They likely can't telephone you the results hey? I am sorry, this does suck. I wish everyone word wide has access to good medical care, proper treatment, and that people in need would be given the same priority as the rich. Call me a socialist or whatever, I hate seeing people like you and DH, and others here struggling between finances and medical expense. It's just so wrong on so many levels.

so sorry you have to make a decision around your heath. I hope you choose to go, I just would hate for it to happen again and then have to go through this whole process and waiting for referral again while your dying in pain. lots of

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to you my amazing buddy.