Yeah, I don't think I'm indifferent. I am sort of sad. Maybe. Now I'm mad that I don't know how I'm feeling or how to describe it. So, I will stick with mad because at least I understand it.

And yeah, my mother is not reacting well and that is causing me the larger issues. Thanks for getting that, Lola. It's all about HER and just thinking about her reactions has my heart hammering in my chest. My dad was my aunt's power of attorney. His name was on her bank accounts so he could pay bills for her. My mom thinks that because my dad is dead, that means my mother now gets my aunt's bank accounts, and is all disappointed when I told her that was not how it worked. She somehow felt entitled even though my aunt has two sons. AND it was obvious she was calling to get that legal advice and not because she cares whether or not I know that my aunt is dead.