1. For me, people either accept it or they get out of my way. I'm not out to push my dx on anyone, so I don't tell everyone. the one's that I have, have been more than cool about it but I guess if they weren't then I just would not be around them. This includes my parents and various other members of my family as well.
2. Just sit with me and listen, I would tell them. When I am up, enjoy the times you have with me, and when I am down, don't try to fix me. Just hang out with me, sit with me and just accept me. Soon enough I will be normal or up again and we can share those good times then, but with me, the good comes with the bad so accept me or please get out of my way... I would say is the best advice I can come up with.
3. Not good at answering this one. I would lie to myself, fool myself and just plain believe ironic, non common sense things to get me by until I feel better. Kind of like I am doing right now. Just have to make it till tonight I am telling myself now. Just have to not worry about the next hour or the next day, just worry about now cuz that's enough worry and anxiety that I can handle for the moment. So I guess I have a selective memory and foresight. it helps, but then again, when I am feeling this way I feel desperate for anything, something and or someone so nothing really helps. change. I crave change when I feel this way. something's got to give. it really does. I would change things, things that don't really need changing just to momentarily feel better. I wish you luck on this, cuz i know that nothing I can say will take away the anxiety and the anger that you must be feeling.
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