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SidOHara1 · Oct 08, 2012, 01:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Leed

Bless your heart -- being your age is one of the most DIFFICULT times in life you will ever experience. Everything is changing. You're trying to become your own person -- everyone is telling you what to do-- you're trying to find someone to love, and you're always getting rejected. It happens all the time at your age. Plus your body is changing and things are happeniing at warp speed and it's all so confusing.

Do you and your parents have a good relationship? Can you talk to your Dad man to man? That's not really very common in this day and age cause parents don't seem to relate well to their kids -- they're too busy which is a travesty. They should TAKE THE TIME to talk to their kids.

How about talkiing to a counselor at school? You NEED someone to talk to and that's what the counselors are there for. They're there to help you with your problems. Not just academic problems, but life problems too. Have a talk with your counselor -- you'll be VERY glad you did my friend. And it doesn't have to be a one time thing -- see about talking to him/her perhaps once a week or more. I'm sure it will make a difference. AND -- DONT' GIVE UP THAT MUSIC!!! It's a very important outlet for you, plus if you're talented, who knows where it might take you! God bless and keep me posted, will you? I care!

Hugs, Lee

Mom is a lesbian and is married to my step mom, Dad lives in Scotland, counselor doesn't help out much, my parents and I have a fairly decent relationship but I refuse to give my mother more problems than needed right now at this point in her life because she is also taking everything with my Grandpa very hard...

To add more to the problems, the people I try to talk to keep cursing me out and go on to say I am the immature one...

does anybody realize the irony of this?

Oh well...

Life goes on.

It's just all so hard, ya know?