Yeah, it's not diagnosed, except by me. LOL. Narcissistic POS addict, maybe borderline. The problem for me, and just walking away, is that we had about 14 years where she was really pretty good. She was great to my children, held pretty good boundaries (after we had pretty intense fights about them, but still . . .) and was generally sort of like a mother. When my younger sister and her family moved in with my parents, my mother just relapsed completely and totally into a complete lack of boundaries or care for any human other than herself and my little sister. Even my little sister's kids appear to exist only to wait on my mother. Anyway. I should not be griping and being a total downer here. Sorry guys.