Des I am thinking maybe telling him its all been fake could backfire. I am of the opinion of maybe saying since you had the baby or breast feeding has had an affect could he do this or that and make them things that would get you that O
I was cryptic there but I hope you get my drift. I fear he would really resent it if you said its been fake all these years. I know I would if my husband said he faked it...but if he acted like something had changed body wise or so on I would not take it personally