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Originally Posted by earthmamma
Because different mental defences fall away in layers. Our wounds are not this or that they are built up in layers. And because one thing seems to feel better there are other layers. It's a gradual thing. Gradually things that you felt we're normal in relationships begin to feel unhealthy.
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So, that seems to suggest that I am making progress, just simply by noticing these things and recognizing them as possible red flags. I may be going overboard with it, but it's a step.