Then this calls for a strategy change. You must maintain your boundaries but if you are around someone who you always need to do this with then it is probably best to get them out of your life. But like MUE's therapist said, she needs to give them the chance to accomodate to her boundaries. And MUE even stated that she doesn't want to enforce boundaries.
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........
I'm an ISFJ
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