Hmmmm seriously , have these men themselves not aged? Sorry hamster but I think they are ridiculous. That is my opinion and I am sticking too it. Attractiveness is not all about size, or breast shape or whatever. It is objectifying, it isn't right. Women are more than just a body put here to pleasure men, and this is not what we as women should be pandering too. I already told you tho what I thought about this, you need to find someone who loves you for you, what happens as you age even more, maybe arthritis sets in, or hair loss...

We do indeed have women on this forum of every size. And you know what... I would take a small guess and say that most of us do NOT love our bodies. Skinny women being compared to teen boys is wrong, sorry. And I am sorry to just pick out this one comment, cause the anorexic, barbie, plastered on boobs etc etc... Just WOW!... is all I am gonna say. That is just as bad as people saying things about larger women. I think it's time for women to stop being in body competition and start being friends with each other. I really do sometimes think women are women's own worst enemy. There is a way we can all feel confident and good about our bodies, but I am afraid I don't think that comes in the form of putting others down to do so. It makes me very sad that is seems to be perfectly ok to put others down in this way, yet at the same time speak about love yourself, confidence yadda yadda yadda... Why would someone want to get fake boobs in this day and age? I do not even wonder.

Sorry if this sounds harsh, but the comments were harsh. I wouldn't bother addressing this if I didn't really think it is a huge part of the problem.

We need to come together and be accepting of each other, maybe then we will be better able to accept ourselves.

I don't love that I deal with anorexia, that I am five feet tall, that I have a small chest, that I have aged, that I am considering fake boobs, that I have no curves, that I do not feel like a grown woman. Putting down larger women who are different than me is not going to help me get there either.