I understand what you mean...though I almost find it worse when people say things like 'you'll eventually recover and be happy like you were before.' well when the hell was I ever happy in the first place I've been miserable since I was a child I just tried keeping it to myself but now I am paying the price with my sanity it seems.

I understand people want to be re-assuring but sometimes its as though none of them understand for some of us the pain is not going to end and its not going to get better. It's done, gone and dead I just feel strange sometimes like I am here but people are trying to bring back some corpse deep inside me instead because maybe that was a happier person than the current one I am.........well its dead quit poking it with a stick. Hopefully that kinda makes sense.