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Leed · Oct 09, 2012, 11:18 PM

Sweetie, maybe the reason you did it was wrong, but YOU aren't wrong just because of your body size. YOU aren't disgusting just because you're a big girl. YOu are still YOU. You are beautiful!!!! You are still the same person you were all along!!! Nothing has changed that.

You're still a kind, moral, loving, beautiful woman you were all along! Nothing will EVER change that.

Please dont beat yourself up for that. Okay, so the reason you put the weight on was a bit twisted. lol But that's over and done with, okay? You don't have to keep beating yourself up for that. You didn't want to cheat -- you should be applauded for that. You needed some kind of comfort so you turned to food like many of us do.

Dearheart -- try going to a therapist. Believe me, he/she can help you both with the marital issues, but with your own issues of weight and self-loathing. You really need to talk to someone about this. And perhaps somewhere in there, you and your husband can talk as a couple to this therapist as you two need some marital counseling too. I don't know what your issues are, but why live in misery when it can be fixed? Call a good therapist -- perhaps your doctor can rrecommend one.

I wish you the very best. Please take care of yourself and God bless. Hugs, Lee