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Originally Posted by puffyprue
i've been hurt many times in my life, and i found its so hard to move on from my last relationship, everywhere i go i saw his face doesnt matter how much alcohol i took i keep seeing his face, no matter how cute and sweet all the new guys who tried to approached me i just cant open myself up, coz i wanted it to be him, iam so insecure and he is a flirt so its not perfect match but..
some people flirt to help them to boost their self esteem and doesnt mean they dont love you, maybe they just dont love theirself
people said time heals the pain, well it does helps to push it back of your mindbut you just dont know how long it takes , with time you will finally realized that maybe she not the person you thought she was and you will learn something from this relationship and help you to grow
i think when it comes to love wether you build a wall or choose to open up you still get hurts, so why not choose to open up, hurts and grow? at least you will have something nice to remember 
after all life is a choice, you are the author of yourlife and only you could decided how the story goes 
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Wow... Thank you.. That was very insightful, it got to me. I also feel the same way as you do.. It's just nice that I am not alone.. Thanks...
Also thanks to everyone else who replied.. It was really nice of you all to read my venting. I just felt like I needed to get it out and hopefully can maybe help someone else who is going through a similar situation.
to all.