We only live once. It is cliche, but it is true. We don't get another chance in this life, this is it. Trust me, don't waste it worrying about what other people think, even if it is your family. If your family chooses to disown you for this, so be it. Ask yourself one question - is he worth it? If the answer then yes, who cares what they think. Family should not choose to disown you for who you are marrying, especially just because he has a different religion. Love is blind. It is also, in my opinion, the most important thing in life. I hate to tell you to ignore your family, but if they are getting in the way of your happiness then I would. This is your life to live, not their life. These are your choices. Be happy and forget about anyone who wants to get in the way.