I agree with the others in that its best to carry on the way you are for now and see how the situation pans out. Why should you deny yourself a chance at happiness? You will still love your family and accept them for all their faults so the only people really missing out here is them. I don't see why if they like your fiance they can't be more accepting of him - perhaps in time the issue will soften but you'll just have to wait and see. There is nothing you can do to change either them or their beliefs so carry on being the good daughter that you are and enjoy building a new life with your wonderful fiance. As for your sister i would be more strict - say that you will not engage with her if she has nothing constructive to say and bar her number until she stops what is quite frankly rather nasty abuse. Family aren't the be all and end all and no you're not in a particular pleasant situation with yours at the moment but if your fiance have a wonderful family and you love being around both them and him then at least you have this. I hope the situation improves for you - when it comes down to it you are their little girl, i doubt they will be able to banish you from their lives forever. All the best.