The reality of the situation is - you can't make this guy behave differently. Nothing you do or say is going to change him. Some men are naturally more reserved but i think he could be more supportive during the times when you feel particularly low. Perhaps you're right; maybe he doesn't really know what to say or do - its not like you've got a broken arm or a physical ailment which he could aid more practically. Men are very practical - and if this guys previous relationships haven't been more 'emotionally' centered i doubt he's going to get much better than what he is already. It sounds to be honest like you're looking for qualities which this guy doesn't necessarily possess. This is an issue which is likely to fester over time so i would perhaps have another discussion with him and talk frankly about whether you're both giving all that you can to the relationship and if it looks like that isn't the case it might be better to end things now rather than later. No its not ideal but there aren't really many other options open to you - you might want to try marriage counselling but it doesn't really sound like you're in trouble, more like you're not 100% suited to each other. You've only been together a year so it would be a shame to call it quits just yet but at the same time if you know in your heart of hearts that it isn't going to work theres no use waiting around in the hope that it will. These are just my thoughts. I hope ive been helpful. All the best.