Not to sound harsh, but uberfat was never admired. I am myself kinda baroque and had gotten "you are fat" crap... but if you happen to be unhealthily overweight... it's not even matter of society and their standards of beauty. ANd yes, I know, health reasons, yadda yadda, but I think it's important to keep yourself HEALTHY. Very overweight is not healthy... and I am not sure it should be encouraged. It's sorta like saying that tumor is beautiful. You can be a good and beautiful person despite being overweight... but obesity is nothing to be celebrated.

As somebody who is into women too... I myself prefer baroque angel type bodytype But there's curves and there's... "damn, you gonna die if you don't lose some of the weight".