Sometime we see peoples colours in ways we didn't dream of, and it can be shocking. Thing is tho, a lot of people don't think clearly. They don't understand, and they don't want to, or don't have to. Close minded, and I would kind of think that is a bit of a mental problem itself. It's not a healthy mindset. Doesn't make them bad people, we all make judgements that are not always sound.

There are lots of people in the world tho, who do not share those opinions, we sometimes think there must not be many of them, but there is. We just don't see it maybe because they are making a lot of noise.

I am sorry that she responded in such a way. It's not fun realizing someone you thought you knew and were friends with turns out to be not who we thought. I do think you did the right thing by letting her know, it was honest. And at least you know you tried and did what you could. When people have closed the door on something, sadly the only person who can open it is them.

Sometimes you gotta wonder what happened to some people to make them so cold..