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Old Oct 10, 2012, 01:18 PM
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Originally Posted by anxiety247 View Post
How do I make people understand my BPD??? Alot of people write it and I have linked information which I think is insightful however one friend is saying there is noting about accountability or responsibility mentioned and refused to finish reading the rest. As for responsibility I am taking meds, going to regular therapy in addition to starting DBT - I am not going to be cured over night and I dislike most of my friendships are hanging by strings and they are giving up on me.

Here is what I linked my friends
http://www.my-borderline-personality...-those-of.html

1. It's good you're taking responsibility with dbt etc.
2. It's best to keep your friends on a need to know basis. In most cases they don't need to know. There is stigma attached to mental illness, and probably moreso to pd.
3. I suspect what your friend may be referring to about accountability is bpd is not an excuse for your actions. It's great that your taking dbt, however if you screw up and do something bpd related you're going to be held accountable for your actions. They are not excused because you have bpd or are taking classes.
Thanks for this!
i'm trying