I feel like I'm in a similar place, or will be in the near future.

After 11 of the best years of my life, my wife suddenly decided she's not that happy being with anymore. She had an epiphany and now isn't sure she can be happy with me, or if she can give me what I need to make me happy. She wants to move out for awhile, give us some time and space to ourselves, and see if that fixes anything. It's like a slap in the face. She gave no advanced warning. One week she seemed like herself, and then the next she is this whole new person.

It makes me question everything. If she can just change overnight like that how am I supposed to trust anything. Even if we did reconcile, I think part of me would always be anticipating another change.

That was 2 months ago. We're now living together in some kind of weird limbo state. She still cares for me on some level, and she still says I'm the love of her life and she can't imagine a future without me... growing old together, having children... at the same time she just seems a lot more distant and isn't convincing me that she wants to make this marriage work.

We're set to go to St. John for a week, (our favorite vacation spot, and where we went for our honeymoon), on Monday, so part of me is hoping that will rekindle her interest, but honestly Im doubtful at this point. I think we'll go, it will be fun, but awkward, and when we get back she'll finish leaving me.

Ain't love grand?