I'm the same way... when I like a girl I tend to go "all in". It hasn't been a problem because the last girl I met, who is now my wife, and I just clicked from the first moment. I think we both really liked what we saw and we were just together. I give myself over completely to the other person, mind, body and soul.

Of course now, 11 years later, she's decided maybe she doesn't like me so much after all. Now all that giving was too much and she feels smothered, and trapped. So when this ends I'm going to be back on the dating scene and I know this is going to be a problem area for me too. Best of luck to you. If you can do then there's hope for me yet.