I think our work with T is partly about teaching us how to interact in a healthy way with other people in our real life. So that time with T is about practising these skills.

Although it may therefore be really interesting to raise this with your T, maybe there is also insight to be gained if you don't feel able to raise it with your T. I know my T bangs on about things not being right or wrong, but it is just our reaction to things that we should have a real interest in. In life people will always disappoint us and it is our reaction to this that we can learn to have control over.

All of that above is my rational head talking , I know for me there is also that strong, mostly overwhelming emotional bit that would be feeling really hurt if I was faced with that situation.

I guess what I am trying to say is that yes maybe you would learn a lot about you from talking to T about what you saw, but maybe there is stuff to be learned anyway, whether you bring it up or not.

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